Why It is Healthy and Normal for Children to Play Alone
Author: Austin Stanfel
We all know that playing is an essential part of children’s lives, which teaches them socialization skills. But we must also remember that playing alone is equally crucial and for this, they need to know how to play on their own. This is required as it teaches certain vital things that can be learned solo only. This includes self decision-making enhancement of their creativity, imaginations, as well as the strength to act independently.
Children generally seek the attention of their parents all the time, which they get quickly. But sometimes, it is vital to allow them to play alone, which is quite helpful for them when they opt to explore new spaces, make their own decisions, and grow up as stronger independent individuals. For all this, parents need first to understand its importance and rest assured that it will also be an exciting experience for them.
Parents should also ensure that when children opt to play alone, there shouldn’t be any electronic gadgets involved which they might use as a source of entertainment. Thus, the very purpose of playing alone will remain unfulfilled. During this, they learn to stay happy and compel themselves to find out ways in which the time can be spent excitingly without merely wasting it. This will significantly boost their imagination and creativity as children need to think hard to avoid boredom when they are left with no other option. Thus, they will be able to grow, explore things, and get to learn many things.
Playing alone makes kids confident about themselves. They get to learn about their innate potentials by solving issues on their own because there is no one else to assist them in such a scenario. In group playing, it generally happens that the decision-making is not vested in one child; they combinedly decide for themselves. Still, in solo play, they need to plan tactfully to get out of any awkward or unwanted situation. Even if they are unable to handle decision-making correctly, the skills used in the scenario will gradually get polished over time to enable them handle such situations better. Thus, when they grow up, they can establish a strong identity of their own.
The occurrence of new hobbies and interests occurs during solo play as there is no peer pressure involved.They gradually start enjoying this and are elated because they don’t have to look up to someone to enjoy their free time. They won’t also feel that others can judge them when they act independently or do something different. They can engage themselves in activities without any hindrance from the public. So, it is essential that before the golden era of getting children involved in solo-play ends, you need to fully utilize the period to teach them skills that cultivate self-confidence as well as independence in them which are vital qualities in life.